Baby, it has been very cold outside for much of the U.S. this week. So on this Thoughtful Thursday we were inspired to look for poems about the chill of winter. Along the way we found a beautiful poem by Robert Hayden, “Those Winter Sundays”. While its title and some of its vibrant imagery evoke winter’s chill, at the core of the poem is a son acknowledging his admiration and love for his father. A perfect poem for GCP readers.
Born in 1913, Robert Hayden grew up in an impoverished African-American section of Detroit and was adopted by a neighbor at the age of two when his mother could no longer afford to keep him. His adoptive family nurtured Hayden’s early literary interests, and as a teenager, he avidly read the poetry of the Harlem Renaissance as well as traditional poets like Edna St. Vincent Millay and Carl Sandburg. While in college Hayden studied with the English poet W.H. Auden. He spent his career writing poetry (for which he won many awards) and teaching, first at the University of Michigan, then at Fisk University for twenty-three years, then returning to Michigan in 1969 to complete his teaching career.
In 1976 Hayden was the first African-American to serve as Consultant in Poetry to the Library of Congress, the post now called U.S. Poet Laureate. He died in 1980. “Those Winter Sundays” is considered his most famous poem. Enjoy.
Those Winter Sundays
Sundays too my father got up early
and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold,
then with cracked hands that ached
from labor in the weekday weather made
banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him.
I’d wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking.
When the rooms were warm, he’d call,
and slowly I would rise and dress,
fearing the chronic angers of that house,
Speaking indifferently to him,
who had driven out the cold
and polished my good shoes as well.
What did I know, what did I know
of love’s austere and lonely offices?
Robert Hayden